klub46

How To Gain Her Trust From The Start


For a woman to have sex with a guy, she must not only be attracted to him, but she must also trust him. Look at it like this:

1. Trust Without Attraction = "He's a great friend and I love him to death!" (Translation: "We'll NEVER have sex!")

2. Attraction Without Trust = "I'm not a loose woman. He'll have to wait before he gets any!"

However, if the woman has both attraction AND trust for the guy, she'll be literally begging you to take her home with you that night.

Let's take a typical scenario. Say it's coming up on 11 PM, and you've been with a woman since 6 that afternoon. As long as you've had good rapport with her and you've kept pushing the interaction forward, you can assume she's attracted to you.

And by the way, with a woman, you should always assume attraction until proven otherwise. Because the bottom line is that as long as you've got good body language, you've got a lot going on in your life, and you're witty and interesting, she WILL be attracted to you.

Now you need to build trust. By the time you finish this article, you'll know an easy, efficient way to do that.

And by the way, this is a one of the best-kept secrets of human persuasion. The most successful advertisers and salesmen to make billions use it, and now you'll be able to use it with women.

Have you ever noticed how ads will sometimes mention minor defects in the products? A famous example of this was the wildly success Volkswagen Beetle ads from 30 years ago that had the huge headline: "Lemon."

The point of the ad was that not all of their cars were perfect. VW took its quality inspections so seriously that it took note of even small weaknesses in the builds of its cars.

You see, if a person tells you something that's against his self-interest, you tend to trust him more. We all do. It's a fundamental trait of human psychology.

So when it comes to women, you should point out your minor flaws and vulnerabilities. Examples could be:

- "I have a mole on my neck. Sometimes I feel self-conscious about it."

- "I had to give a speech last week and felt so nervous!"

- "I don't always floss my teeth even though I should."

Even if they're fake flaws, it doesn't necessarily matter. By pointing them out, you create a perception of honesty within the woman.

Because she believes the minor imperfections about you, she'll believe the MAJOR PERFECTIONS about you as well.

This means that, having both attraction for AND trust in you, later that night she could be breathlessly panting, "I've never done it with a guy this soon before!"

John Alexander is author of How To Become An Alpha Male, a dating success guide for men. To learn more about how you can build a woman's trust in you to captivate her completely, visit http://www.becomingalpha.com


MORE RESOURCES:
This RSS feed URL is deprecated, please update. New URLs can be found in the footers at https://news.google.com/news


NPR

When Dating Felt Like A Job, One Woman Hired A Matchmaker
NPR
If there is one universal claim about dating, it's that it's tough out there. With online dating apps on mobile phones, it's easier than ever to find new people — but that takes time. Filling out dating profiles, swiping through matches and going on ...



CNBC

Badoo, the majority owner of the dating app Bumble, is seeking a sale that could value the company at $1.5 billion
CNBC
Badoo, the majority owner of the dating application Bumble, which gives women sole power to initiate conversations, is seeking a sale that could value the company at about $1.5 billion, according to people familiar with the matter. Badoo owned 79 ...

and more »


TIME

Olivia Munn Personally Text Messaged Anna Faris to Dispel Chris Pratt Dating Rumors
TIME
Olivia Munn is shutting down rumors that she and Anna Faris are at odds because of gossip that implied that she and Faris' ex, Chris Pratt might be dating. In a series of screenshots captured by People that the actor shared on her Instagram story, Munn ...
Olivia Munn Texts Anna Faris To Let Her Know She's Not Dating Chris PrattHuffPost
Olivia Munn denies Chris Pratt dating rumorsCBS News
Olivia Munn shut down Chris Pratt dating rumors by texting Anna FarisAtlanta Journal Constitution
PEOPLE.com -Page Six -E! Online -Daily Mail
all 111 news articles »


The Sun

Millennials spend 10 hours a week on dating apps, research reveals
The Sun
"These results give one of the first insights into how long Brits spend in pursuit of love. "And it will come as no surprise that time is no barrier for most people." According to the study women were found to log on to dating apps a staggering 10 ...

and more »


The Boston Globe

Amid Aziz Ansari accusations, singles say these are scary times to be dating
The Boston Globe
In this time of upheaval, with the news supplying a steady diet of new accusations of sexual misconduct, and with social media aflame with differing beliefs about the appropriate response to those accusations, those in the dating world find themselves ...

and more »


Dating in the closet
ChicagoNow (blog)
It's this terrible thought at the back of your head that just nags at you incessantly. The conversation will be going along swimmingly. He's a cute guy and seems genuinely interested. He may even seem like Mr. Right. But then I remember, and it gnaws ...



W Magazine

Surprise, Surprise: Scott Disick Isn't Thrilled That Kourtney Kardashian Is Dating a 24-Year-Old
W Magazine
... 'What are we doing in life? What are you doing? What am I doing?'" recalled Kourtney Kardsahian on Sunday night's episode of Keeping Up With the Kardashians. "And I'll go, 'What are you doing?' And he'll say, 'But what are you doing?'" Of course ...

and more »


NBC 7 San Diego

Criminals Using Photos of Dead Service Members to Con Victims on Dating Sites
NBC 7 San Diego
Developers of a new dating app are warning customers about the prevalence of criminals fraudulently using pictures of dead and active duty service members on various sites to con victims and steal their money. “They want to present themselves as heroes ...

and more »


The Federalist

Podcast: Failures Of #MeToo, Sex, And Woes Of Modern Dating
The Federalist
On this episode of The Federalist Radio Hour, Mary Katharine Ham and Inez Stepman address the current dating scene and the current sex panic that feminists are finding themselves in. They discuss the Aziz Ansari story and other stories of women who ...



Cinema Blend

Olivia Munn Responds To Rumors Of Dating Chris Pratt
Cinema Blend
While it's exciting to be a big movie star, there are plenty of downsides to that level of fame and fortune. Namely, becoming a star means that you essentially give up any privacy. This certainly applies to romantic relationships, as fans tend to cling ...
Olivia Munn and Chris Pratt dating rumors: Munn texts Anna Farris to personally deny tabloid reportsChristianToday
Chris Pratt Dating Olivia Munn? Actress Addresses Rumors After 'Romantic' DinnerInternational Business Times

all 12 news articles »

Google News

home | Clicky Web Analytics Clicky
© 2006