klub46

Use The Boyfriending Technique To Get The Girl


In order for a typical woman to have sex with a man, she must have feelings of comfort and trust. It is not enough for her to simply feel attraction for the guy.

Let's say you meet a girl at a 5 PM happy hour. The two of you hit it off, having a great conversation. She's laughing. She's interested. You entrance her by telling her fascinating stories about your life. The two of you have good rapport.

Around 7:30, you get hungry and invite her to get something to eat. Dinner goes well too. Then dinner ends. Now what?

At this time, a lot of guys get confused about how to advance the interaction forward. Clearly the goal is to get laid, but the roadmap is often muddled.

Usually the night ends with the woman saying after dinner, "I had great time meeting you. Call me. Bye!"

Often, the reason this happens all too often is that the woman simply didn't feel comfortable enough around you. The need for comfort is why women like to make guys wait before sex. (If the guy's lucky, it might be only three dates, but with a lot of women, the guy can be made to wait for months.)

Fortunately, there's a way to shortcircuit that barrier and get laid fast. I call it the "Boyfriending Technique."

If you watch couples who are in close relationships, you'll notice an interesting phenomenon. The man and woman are extremely comfortable touching each other, so much so that they'll even do seemingly gross things like brush sleep ("eye boogers") out of each other's eyes.

It's a behavior that's only done by people who are completely comfortable around each other. Certainly when you are at the point in a relationship where you can brush sleep out of a woman's eye, you've long since passed the point where the two of you are comfortable having sex.

Catch my drift? You can use this as a psychological weapon to make the woman feel more comfortable around you.

In mid-conversation, tell her to hold still and close her eyes. Pretend there's sleep in her eye, and make her believe that you just brushed it off.

Later, after the two of you finish eating and leave the restaurant, again tell her to hold still. With your finger, brush off an imaginary piece of food from her lower lip.

The net result of the Boyfriending Technique is nuclear. First, it sub-communicates that the two of you are very comfortable around each other.

Secondly, it involves you touching her face, bringing your heads closer together and progressing you towards a make out session.

Third, in the case of you touching her lower lip, you're in fact touching an erogenous zone. That's right... a woman's lower lip has a high concentration of nerve endings. Stimulate her lower lip makes her body release sex hormones.

Make the Boyfriending Technique a part of your dating arsenal, and you'll find more success than ever before. You may just be having sex within several hours instead of having to wait several months.

John Alexander is author of "How To Become An Alpha Male," which is the lazy man's way to easy sex and romance. Find it at http://www.becomingalpa.com


MORE RESOURCES:

TMZ.com

Cody Bellinger Dating Smokin' Hot Pre-Law Student ... All Rise!
TMZ.com
The 22-year-old Dodgers rookie phenom has been dating Melyssa Perez -- a pre-law student at the University of Texas (hook 'em), TMZ Sports has learned. Our sources say the two aren't official or anything ... but they've been on a few dates and he's ...

and more »


PEOPLE.com

Savannah Chrisley Splits from Boyfriend Luke Kennard After 4 Months of Dating
PEOPLE.com
“The last 4 months I've been dating Luke have been great but as a young woman of faith I made the decision that with where Luke and I both are in our careers, it was best to part as friends rather than deal with the pressures of wondering if you are ...

and more »


Today.com

The latest dating trend is called zombie-ing and it's pretty common
Today.com
Maybe you've been there: You're dating someone for a while and he or she disappears, only to return a few months later, seemingly out of the blue, with a sly text, "Hey, how have you been?" It's pretty common, dating expert Bela Gandhi told TODAY, and ...



The Sun

Stashing is the latest dating trend which is ruining romances – could it be happening to you?
The Sun
MODERN dating is a minefield - and to make matters worse, there are all these wacky new "terms" to get your head around. First there was cushioning, a word used to describe a relationship where something is going wrong, then we had benching and ...



cosmopolitan.com (UK)

5 things every 30-something should know about dating
cosmopolitan.com (UK)
When you're at school or university, it feels like dating is the major thing on everyone's minds. The best gossip, the deep chats… SO many of the conversations are centred around love, sex, and dating - no matter how ill-fated our exploits are at that ...



Forbes

What The CEO Of An Exclusive Dating App Wants You To Know About Launching In A Crowded Market
Forbes
When Amanda Bradford came up with the idea for The League, an ultra-exclusive dating app, everybody from her Stanford professors to prospective investors tried to convince her to pursue something else. “The dating space is crowded. It's very low ...



New York Post

Dating is becoming a full-time job
New York Post
In a city known for its ambitious dating scene, where people compete for the most attractive and successful partners, some millennials are treating the single life like a second career, using stats, spreadsheets and stacked meetings to increase their ...



USA TODAY

OKCupid bans white supremacist from dating service
USA TODAY
SAN FRANCISCO — Dating service OKCupid says it has banned a white supremacist for life. And it's asking its members to report other OKCupid members who belong to hate groups. OKCupid joins a growing corporate backlash against neo-Nazis in the ...
Watch VICE News Tonight's full episodeVICE News
OkCupid on Twitter: "We were alerted that white supremacist Chris Cantwell was on OkCupid. Within 10 minutes we ...Twitter
Bumble and OKCupid are going after hate speechMashable
Gizmodo -Twitter
all 43 news articles »


Slate Magazine (blog)

What Atypical gets right about autism and dating.
Slate Magazine (blog)
While it has its flaws, Atypical is an important step forward in how TV shows portray autism and dating.

and more »


The Boston Globe

OkCupid bans white supremacist from dating app
The Boston Globe
If you're a white supremacist, you won't find love on OkCupid. That's according to the online dating company, which Thursday banned a New Hampshire man for life from using its services because of his alleged affiliation with hate groups. Advertisement.
Dating site OkCupid kicks out white supremacist: 'There is no room for hate'Chicago Tribune
White supremacist Chris Cantwell kicked off dating site OkCupid ...Fox News
Before Getting Banned From OkCupid, White Supremacist Chris Cantwell Wrote Tips for Dating OnlineGizmodo
Fortune -Metro -VICE News -Southern Poverty Law Center
all 233 news articles »

Google News

home | Clicky Web Analytics Clicky
© 2006